In chapter twenty-two the Ramchal defined Anavah: "Humility in thought is when a person contemplates and realizes that he is not entitled to praise or honor..." Later in the chapter, the author lists four behaviors of the humble man: "The fourth component is the distribution of honor to all people..."
We would expect the humble to eschew honor entirely; surprisingly, the Ramchal classifies honoring others as a fundamental behavior of the humble man. It seems that honor cannot be denied or suppressed. It is a reality of our world and it must be dealt with. The humble understand that honor exists not for the indulgence of their ego, but for them to bestow it upon others. (See this post.) Moreover, the very exercise of honoring others develops humility as it internalizes the sense that we have no rational claim on honor for ourselves.
The level after Anavah is Yiras Cheit, the Fear of Sin. This poses a problem. Fear of sin was established back in Zehirus as the earliest step of this program of spiritual growth (see chapter four and this post). How and why does it reappear here near the end? The Ramchal answers this question by distinguishing between different types of "fear" (or better, awe).
... the point of both of them is to abstain from doing anything against His exalted honor, may He be blessed. However the difference between the two... is that the [first type of] awe exists either at the time of doing [a mitzvah], at the time of divine service or in a situation of sin. That is, at the time that a person stands up to pray or serve Hashem they are embarrassed, ashamed, trembling and quaking before the exalted honor of Hashem, may He be blessed. Or at the time that an opportunity to sin presents itself... he should abstain from doing it so that he should not commit a violation before His Honorable Eyes, God forbid. But [the] Yiras Cheit [that we are dealing with in our chapter] exists at all times and at every hour. At every moment he is afraid lest he err and do something, or a part of something, that would be contrary to the honor of His Name, may He be blessed.Note that the Ramchal used the word "honor" four times in that paragraph! In other words, Yiras Cheit is the unceasing concern for the honor of God. That would present a conflict of interest for someone who lacks humility and feels entitled to honor himself. Indeed, the Ramchal begins chapter twenty-four by telling us that Yiras Cheit is attainable "only by one who has already achieved all the previously mentioned attributes." But Anavah is more than just a prerequisite for Yiras Cheit, for Anavah is not only about eschewing honor; it is also about giving honor to others. A holy practice which can and ultimately will evolve into Yiras Cheit, in which honoring the ultimate Other - God Himself - is man's sole concern.
It seems that Ramchal sides with Ben Azzai and not Rabbi Akiva as the ultimate goal of humility. R' Akiva says that v'ahavta l'reiacha kamocha is the klal gadol batorah, which seems to take it for granted that you cannot treat other people better than you treat yourself.
ReplyDeleteBen Azzai, however, in saying that b'tzelem elokim nivrah ha'adam is the klal gadol, seems to say that we need to recognize the divine spark in others, and as such, are obligated to show them honor, just as we are (obviously) obligated to show God honor.
Maybe R' Akiva feels that this high level is unattainable for the masses and v'ahavta l'reiacha kamocha is a more ideal approach for everyone?